There's a Lesson in it.
Gossip must be one of the most dangerous activities that a
human can engage in. Not only is it destructive but often it is inaccurate and
can cause lots of trouble for the person spreading the tale as well as the
person who is being gossiped about. Recently I had occasion to see the impact
of gossip on a friends relationship when she shared things with a wwoofer who
she was working with in her garden. This young wwoofer then related what she
had been told to a third party only to have the tale relayed to my friend’s
partner who then used it as ammunition to confront his partner during one of
their relationship counselling sessions. Naturally my friend freaked out and
rang me as I was the one who had sent her the wwoofer and she was feeling completely
betrayed by her private discussion having come back on her. So what’s the
lesson? For my friend be cautious about what she shares in future when she is
working alongside a wwoofer. For the wwoofer caution also in future dealings
and particularly who she talks to in the future-getting involved in peoples
personal relationships is very complicated at the best of times and even worse
when it involves gossip.
At the farm we haven’t had many wwoofers or helpers after
several left in reaction to me or the supposed negative energy on the farm last
week and that has meant I am back working in the shop in its last days. After
11 years we are closing the Old Bakehouse Market or as it is now known Queen
Street Curio. We will close down at the end of April. Many past wwoofers will remember
working in the shop-some more than others but everyone mostly enjoyed the experience
and for those learning to speak English it was a great opportunity to improve
their conversational skills.
Work continues on the community earth oven and the three
kiln ovens-it is such a huge project and I am thankful to all the many
international workers-wwoofers and helpX helpers who have worked on the project
to get it to where it is now-I wonder why I am doing this for the local
community when no one from the local community has helped build it-Maybe it
means the local community is not very interested in such a project but in my
heart I feel everyone in the future will be grateful to have such a facility.
Anyway we keep going.
The biggest sadness of the week was the death of my
daughters dog Lucy. She had an enlarged heart and after getting an infection
suddenly started collapsing with heart episodes. Her death at aged 11 was a
great shock and is yet another sign of how time passes and the mortality of all
species.
I put some photos of interest of wwoofers who have
worked on the oven and other bits and pieces. My next blog will speak about Permaculture
and the Natural Farming that I try to practise on the farm following the
teachings of Masanobu Fukuoka whose writings I am now re-reading-I thoroughly
recommend his last book “Sowing Seeds in the Desert-Natural Farming, Global
Restoration and Ultimate Food Security” and of course his first book-“The One
Straw Revolution”.
Willing Workers in 2014 after playing with clay earth oven
Kristen and others working on building the Kiln oven
The community earth oven with the exterior posts
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